Once when I was young (shortly after the Ark landed) the words gender and sex meant the same. I usually only heard the word "gender" in French lessons at school, so I could tell which sex a table was in French. It didn't seem to matter much except to another table. "la table" is feminine by the way. Later on it seems feminists, having decided that men and women were the same, decided that something must be getting in the way of men and women being equal, even interchangeable. This they decided was "gender". Now gender came to mean a social conditioning imposed above and beyond the physical sex of the child. Gender and sex meant two different things and since gender was an ephemeral thing, not really having any definition or form, then it could be changed. About this time Dr. John Money started saying that you could bring up a boy as a girl or vice versa and they would act the way you bought them up. This seemed to work in his experiments with babies of indeterminate sex. It's clear where he got his ideas from. As little as 10 years previously any idea that men and women were interchangeable and that you could get boys to like dolls and girls to like train sets would have been dismissed as nonsense. In 1966 Bruce Reimer, a young baby, along with twin his brother, was circumcised. Both babies had had trouble urinating and this was to be the solution. Unfortunately for Bruce Reimer this turned out to be the start of his troubles. The circumcision went drastically wrong and his genitals were all but destroyed. The parents looked around for someone to help this now seriously damaged baby. They found Dr John Money. He said that Bruce could be surgically altered and become Brenda and everything would be alright. They thought they had the solution. Brenda Reimer was expected to grow to be a happy girl and women. The trouble is that Brenda didn't like dresses or dolls and was unhappy as a girl and didn't make friends with other girls and acted a lot like a boy. Eventually when Brenda was older they told her/him. Brenda immediately declared himself David and became a man, including surgery to turn him back into a man as near as possible. The public didn't know what was happening to David. While this was going on Dr John Money was being lauded as the man who proved that men and women were interchangeable. Although the change back helped, David had psychological problems and there were suicide attempts. At age 38, David Reimer killed himself on 4th May 2004.
There's a discussion on MensActivism Can Gender Be Socially Constructed?
Recent Comments